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You should listen to this

Some of you have probably already heard this, but just in case you missed it, I HAD to share. It’s that awesome. Just finished listening to Caitlin Moran on Fresh Air and now I’m downloading (I still buy paper books, too, but e-readers are awfully convenient) her book. Excerpt below. That is all. “In her […]

Speaking of Perspective… Faking It

So remember that AMAZING post by Mr. Smarty Pants Dennis Hong, That “Amazing First Date We Went on Kind of Sucked For Me. You don’t? Well go read it! In short, he talked about the very real phenomena of being on a date, realizing you’re not really into the person but going through the motions […]

Perspective. Yeah That.

Had to share, even if it makes me queasy. I had a medical appointment with a new doctor. A second opinion I should have had long ago. Why didn’t I have it sooner? 1) I thought I was getting pretty good care 2) I did actually make this appointment MANY months ago. Getting in to […]

What If?

Hey kids, remember me? I have no excuses. Just a bunch of half assed, half finished posts. I just haven’t had my head in the right place for sharing. And this one’s gonna be short. I think. But then, I haven’t written it yet… There’s this theme that keeps popping up. In my life, the […]

Why old men wear high-waisted pants

Today’s guest post is written by Dennis Hong. We’ve all seen the stereotype before: Elderly man with khaki trousers up to his chest. Who hasn’t, right? Of course, whenever we see such an old man, we always shake our heads, smirk, and think, “Look at that old man. Look at his horrible fashion sense. Is […]