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Breathing Self-Doubt

“Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.” -Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy Sometimes I hear myself say something and I think, Yeah, sounds about right. That’s the way it was, last week, during my radio show.  I was talking about unhappy relationships, and how I’d rather be single […]

ceci n’est pas une post

You either get the joke or you don’t. Anyway… This is not a post about dating, or relationships, or being single or about any of the things I usually write about. In fact, it’s not really a post at all. It’s really just an explanation of what happened to today’s post. The dog ate my […]

The Good Days and The Bad Days

Random fact, but here it is: for the first time in my life I’ve started to keep my pill bottles on my bedside table (which is really a bookcase not a table, but…). Not all of my pill bottles. Just my everyday meds and the ones I need most often for emergencies/when I’m feeling unwell. […]


So last night was the 2nd episode of the Single Edition Radio Show (wait, do radio shows have episodes or editions or installments or…?). Sherri and I were bouncing around ideas for the show, and I strongly advocated for Self-Love. Because, frankly, it’s an issue for me. Not only am I hard on myself. But […]

It’s a Learning PROCESS

I’ve been sitting on this story for a while because that’s what I do. I sit on stories until I’m ready to tell them. Until the right amount of time has passed and I feel ready to put it down on paper in some coherent way. So a while ago I went out with this […]