Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Bottoms Up

Good morning all and welcome to Thursday. I’ve got a guest post for you all the way from the London, from the fab blogger Katy_Red  of All Sweetness and Life. Bottoms Up I had a date a few nights ago with a man. He was tall, attractive, had a lovely smile and nice shoes. He was […]

It’s Not Rocket Science

Welcome back everyone. Damn, it was nice having a few days off! I spent one of those days hanging out with a girlfriend. And, in addition to drinking beer, eating yummy fried food and watching football (that’s what lazy Sundays are made for, am I right?) we chatted a bit about recent dating dysfunction. She […]

What is Age Appropriate?

So, a few weeks ago I was out with friends, at a bar, and I overheard a women (who was a good 10-15 years my junior) say that she didn’t think it was age appropriate for older women to be out drinking in bars, acting like they were still in their 20s. She was a […]

How About a Drink?

My preference, for first dates, is to meet for a drink. It can be coffee, wine, beer. But, really, I don’t want to commit to more than a beverage on a first date. It’s a time commitment thing. And usually, when a guy asks me out, if he doesn’t explicitly says, “a drink”, I suggest […]

The Straw, Part 2

Good morning folks. This week’s Guy’s Story is part 2 of The Straw from my twitter friend MemoirsOfASingleDad (@M_oa_SD). Click here for Part 1. The Straw Part 2 The Aftermath To understand the rest of this date, you have to know a little bit about martinis. Martinis at this particular establishment are served in a […]