Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Words Like Fists

I’ve been a total shut-in lately. Which, in all honesty, is lousy for my mental health. I’ve always been a bit of a loner by nature. But I do need some human interaction. Even if it’s by phone and internet. And I haven’t been doing much of that lately, either. Which means when I do […]

Can’t We All Be Friends?

Most of the guys I date are divorced. It’s not a matter of choice, just demographics. I mostly date older guys (and I’m 40). And a pretty high % of single guys in their 40s and 50s are divorced. So, that said, I’d much rather a guy have a decent relationship with his ex. Especially […]

Speaking of Spats

As I mentioned earlier today, I have a bad habit of not telling guys when I’m pissed off.  It’s something I’ve been working on, but I still I have a long ways to go. Anyway, I saw this video and laughed my ass off.  But then I thought, wow, I can’t actually recall ever having […]
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The Last to Know

As I’m sure I’ve mentioned, I do actually have friends who are in happy, healthy, relaitonships – married and otherwise.  Not too long ago I got a call from one of them.  My friend was uber-stressed out about some issues at home and wanted to vent (married 10ish years, I think, I can never remember […]
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