Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Love, Money, Sex and Other Complications

Today’s post is one of those rambling, all over the place messes where I try to tie a bunch of things together into one coherent theme. Lots of parentheses and tangents ahead. You’ve been warned. The weather in NYC has been freakishly warm and I’ve been taking advantage of it. I’ve been forcing myself, no […]

Porn is…

I’m late with this. So late. I started this post a while ago. Then I got caught up with other things (gotta pay the bills). I was just going to dump it, but I really do want to know what other people think about this topic. So here it is. Better late than never? I’m […]

I wouldn’t have to work at all, I’d fool around and have a ball…

Sorry, I couldn’t resist. And who doesn’t love Abba? So, yesterday there was this new post/study from YourTango blowing up twitter. It seems that 75% of Women Would Not Marry Someone Who Was Unemployed. Shocking! So not shocking. Also revealed was that 65% of those same women wouldn’t get married if they, themselves, were unemployed. […]

What Women Want

Dress up anything in the guise of scientific research, and I’ll read about it. ANYTHING. Including crap like, Study Reveals Once and For All What Women Find Attractive (and thank you Jezebel for finding this stuff for me). I’m not going to paraphrase the Jezebel post. There’s no point to that. Here’s the one-liner: the latest […]

Blast from the past: There’s No Such Thing as a Free Lunch

I’ve traveling today, so no new post. Instead, here’s an oldie but goodie: There’s No Such Thing as a Free Lunch This is not a new topic, for me or for anyone else.  But it keeps coming up. And maybe now that our entire financial system is collapsing and so many of us have less […]