Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

There’s a Fine Line Between Smart and Ass

Today’s guest post is written by Dennis Hong. As anyone who’s ever suffered through a bout of online dating knows, when you’re filling out your dating profile, you have to type in these little packets of personal information. One self-description that I invariably put down is that I can be a bit of a smart-ass. […]

Confirming My Suspicion Redux

I’ve been putting this off for a while. Too long. Because I have nothing to say. Nothing new to say. But I have to say something.  For a long time now, since last April, to be exact, this blog has been a home for the heartbroken. Each week hundreds (sometimes thousands) of new people (mostly […]

No More Crappy First Dates

People keep asking me about my dating life. It’s been a long time since I’ve written about a recent date, here. There are a few reasons for that. All falling under the theme – nothing worth writing about. I’d thought I’d met someone interesting, way back in the fall, before I got sick. Not much had […]

How About We Have Some Fun (Part Deux)

So remember when I gushed about the dating site and told you about my upcoming date? It was quick, easy, painless and I was totally looking forward to it! Well, the best laid plans… I’d met this guy on HowAboutWe and we quickly hit it off (he liked my date suggestion, I liked his, […]

How About We Have Some FUN!!!

You want to know the #1 difference between and ALL those other online dating sites? It’s not the way it’s based on date ideas (which I love) or that it takes about 1/5th the amount of time to set up your profile (also awesome). Or even the fact that there seem to be fewer losers on […]