Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Let Your Freak Flag Fly

Recently, the lovely and talented Taylor Cast wrote a post for The Urban Dater called, You want me to do what!? Sexual Fetishes. In it she details the demise of a promising new-ish relationship when the guy she was seeing shared a very specific and ultra-kinky fetish that was beyond her comfort zone. Which got […]

Cram It in the Boot

I’d been planning to do a somewhat naughty poll today, but today just didn’t work out as planned. Sidenote: a very personal thank you to Jack, Sherri, Cece and everyone else who helped take care of me last night at the tweetup when I started to feel icky. I’m feeling better today, but still kinda […]

The Last Time You Had Sex It Was_______????

So yesterday, I reposted an old post (still having issues with writers block). It was one of last year’s Top Ten most popular posts and one I’d thought about recently. And, sure enough, there were some people who felt the need to tell me that my problem is that sex should never be separated from […]

The Young and The Sexless?

Gosh darnit, those crazy kids have gone and surprised us again. The latest survey shows a significant decline in teen sexual activity. Specifically: “The latest round of the quaintly named National Survey of Family Growth found that among 15-to-24-year-olds, 29 percent of females and 27 percent of males reported no sexual contact with another person […]

Bloggers + Wine – What Could Go Wrong?

So, remember when I mentioned my new Radio Show? Well, we’ve survived the first few weeks without any major glitches. Minor glitches a plenty, but no major glitches. Last week’s show featured KB in NYC, Skye Blue from Met Another Frog and Jack from Brooklyn discussing love, sex, dating and technical difficulties (lots of technical difficulties). I […]