Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Self-Destruction at its Best

This is one of those posts I thought about not writing. For a couple of reasons. First, I have to admit to some poor behavior (which isn’t new, or even infrequent, but still it’s hard each time). And I have to share details, specific details, about someone else’s life in order to tell my story. […]

What Do You Find Attractive in a Man/Woman?

It’s official -> I’m odd. Yeah, yeah, yeah, no surprise there. I’m odd and in more ways than I can probably count.  Here’s today’s example: I was walking with a couple of female friends when they both slowed down to notice a guy a few yards away.  A guy they both thought was very attractive. […]

Do You Kiss And Tell?

I remember being asked by an IRL friend, after he checked out this blog for the first time, “Where’s the sex?”.  It’s a valid question. I write about sex in a vague and general way. As a theme. But I never give the juicy details. That’s a conscious choice I’ve made, based on what I […]

“He’s not going to buy the cow if he can get the milk for free.”

I’ve been working on this post for the last few days.  Or rather, I’ve taken several stabs at it. I keep writing posts full of passion and conviction. None of which really belong here. The thing is, I have a stake in this fight.  But I try (TRY) to keep my temper in check and […]

Not Your Ordinary Run of the Mill Crush

I’m starting to really lurve Thursdays.  This week’s guest post comes from @bethm411. Beth blogs at Midwestern Girl dating in her  *yipes* 30’s. Not Your Ordinary Run of the Mill Crush In November 2009, I went out to drinks with one of my best friends, Marcy, for her birthday.  She invited a few colleagues, none that […]