Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

You’re Just a Fool

In honor of April Fools Day – a brief meditation on being a fool. But first, a musical interlude. A fool in love, we’ve all been there. Well, maybe I shouldn’t make those kind of assumptions. I guess there are some people who’ve never been consumed by emotion and thus acted like a goddamn fool. […]

‘I’m Too Sexy’ Valentine’s Day Contest

I’m just gonna come out and say it – I’m sexier now than I was 10 years ago.  Or 20 years ago. Hold on tight, there are tangents-a-plenty. I might have had a better body in my 20s and/or 30s. But back then, I wasn’t nearly as comfortable in my own skin as I am […]

Another Week…

I wasn’t around much last week. Not online and not IRL. I was down in Miami for a conference for the second half of the week and that kept me super-busy. So, needless to say, I’m days behind on comments (and lots of other things). Sorry about that. I want to draw your attention to a […]


I’ve been thinking a lot about this, lately. I’m not saying that I wish that things turned out differently. I don’t. There’s not a single relationship that I look back on and think, If only... But, I do look back and think, I wish I hadn’t wasted so much energy on being angry. Which reminds […]

Bring on the New

Happy New Year kids. I’ve got lots of fun things planned for the new year (including 2 dates in the next 72 hrs). I wanted to start the year with something new on the blog, because y’know, sometimes I get bored with the status quo. And if I’m bored, I assume you’re bored, too. So, […]