Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Confessions of a Jerk: A Curious Case of Super Dickery

Today’s guest post comes from Alex of The Urban Dater Fame. For tawdry tales of deceit and dickery I present… Confessions of a Jerk: A Curious Case of Super Dickery I’ve done the fade before. In fact, I probably deserve an award if such things were given out for exemplary talent in disappearing from a relationship like […]

Speaking of The Fade???

So, yesterday, me and the other fab members of the Insomniac club explored the fade. Some of my fellow bloggers defended the fade as a legitimate way to peacefully end a relationship. Others were violently opposed to the practice. So here’s what I want to know – how do you feel about it?  Do you […]

Don’t Say Hello

Before I begin today’s topic, just a quick mention that this is another Insomniac Club post. You can follow along in real time via twitter using the #insomniaclub hashtag. Don’t Say Hello There are things I wish I could say to men on the first date. Before the first date. Telepathically as they first lay eyes on me. […]

Don’t Be Cruel

Cruel:  disposed to inflict pain or suffering; devoid of humane feelings The cruelest thing a man can do to a woman is to portray her as perfection. D. H. Lawrence The other day, the guys at VSB did a post on the 4 cruelest things that women do to men.  As usual, for them, it […]
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A Matter of Trust (Trust?)

I was supposed to have a date with Mr. Nicepost tonight.  Was.  I got an email from him early this afternoon saying that he was sick.  The flu.  He suggested we get together Friday.  But I have family stuff this weekend and so… People get sick all of the time.  It happens. And yet my […]